What more men can ask for?

Being someone's wife is quite different than being a mother or daughter or any other relationship.

You are looked upon as a partner with neccesary abilities. If you are better in certain things then it's perfect for his heart to feel content and equally mortifying for his mind to feel 'comparative sickness' (where you compare yourself with your partner and face inferiority complex sometimes if not overcome). You both support eachother but these support too comes in a package. 

Rules are laid down to be a perfect husband or wife in social media these days, numbers of reels and shorts are made to make you realise how great it is to be a good spouse. We are as viewers are digesting these narratives. Again this 'comparative sickness' hampers many relationship which are built unlike the projected skits.

Ever pondered about these support thing?

I as a woman, feel quite drifted while understanding these norms because of disparity among my situation and theirs.

Who are these chivalrous men?Who are all over social media(SM) preaching an ideal example of being husband or boyfriend. 

I can't find them, haha.

What more men ask for beside looking at their partner as Sexual counterparts?

A husband with family will look for wife who can bring balance in their family and harmoniously handle every situation, like some pro female Monk or character like Penelope(Homer's oddessy) who is cunning and intelligent but dull enough to wait for her a man who can't even confront his own wife directly.

Children are harbringger of love and problems. From childbirth to raising them into adults it becomes a custom for mother to torn their self apart. One for husband another for child because a mother hold prime role is bringing up any child properly. Though father too has a part but taking care becomes mother's job. Therefore, two babies on either sides.

A husband without family is pretty hard to find but if you ever find so, then it is infact more difficult for a wife to balance her relationship because there is no children to make them realise that 'I must respect my child's mother'. And no other person to tell "whatever, she is better than your ex's, bro!" 

You are a single person with human problems, which are adjustments, complaint, monotonous relationship. 

For masala, only distraction can help, but which couple is ideal if they are busy with other people or doesn't pay attention to your constant need according to present SM standards???

For those who think Love can Help, let me tell you I am talking about No Sex relationship space. This arena is similar to Ae Dil hain Muskil. There Ranbir had hardtime, he also went with Aishwarya for distraction. Is there any answer other than sex to be the major reason for his departure from Anushka? Do not say heart, if only Love=Sex then its applicable.

Finally, what men ask from wife or girlfriend other than sex???

Ps- There is a contant stuggle in everything from inside to out, ditch to cosmos and we are part of it.